Learn from Your Mistakes

annyeong ! ! :))

haven't post any blurbs for a while now . . 

so i guess i'll talk about something that is hugely related to us . . 

bear with me ok ? [if u don't wanna then don't read :P]

nobody's perfect .

yup , that's true . everyone makes  mistakes . .

we can't run away from that fact . . 

BUT !

we learn from our mistakes right ? 

n we don't repeat it . . 

so , if u want to change yourself , wouldn't it be better if u look in the mirror n ask yourself :

"what did i do before ?" , "why am i like this? " 

or something like that ? 

or maybe , 

"why do people hate me ?" , "why don't i have any friends ?"

n so on . . 

if u're just saying that u want to change , but repeat what u've done , what's the point on saying u want to change ? ?

pointless ok ? pointless !

yes , i'm not that much of a person to say something like this , but , i know  myself more than anyone else does . 

if i know i did something wrong , i'll face that person n tell him/her that i'm wrong n apologize . . 

however , i'll never apologize if i'm sure it's not my fault . . 

plus , i won't be going around n tell people this n that to prove that i was right . . 

that's how i see myself , n i don't care how people see me . . 

b'coz , in the end , we have to stand on our own feet right ?

why do we have to rely on people when we can rely on ourselves ? ?

the point is , if u're really sorry , n want to change yourself , make some effort n CHANGE !

if u're just saying things n doesn't mean it , don't say it !

u're wasting your own precious time ! !

ok , i admit that i'm not good with people myself , n i hate a lot of things around me . . 

but still , if u don't know how to cooperate with all those things , why live ? ?

just go n rot somewhere !

if u can't take criticism , then don't critique others !

if u don't want to be judged , then don't judge others !

if u hate people talk bad about u , don't talk bad about others !

it's the same way around . . 

if u want people to be nice to u , n appreciate your existence , then treat them the same way !

by doing this , u'll find the reason to live right ?

don't go saying "oh , he/she is so _____________" n get mad when u heard them says the same thing about u !

remember this :

before you assume , learn the facts .

before you judge , understand why .

before you speak , think .

before you hurt someone , feel .

well , that's just a piece of my mind . . 

if what i say above doesn't meet your expectation , then leave . . 

i never ask anyone to read my blog . . 

if u really wanna change , then learn from your mistakes . 

don't expect people to change , if u don't change yourself . . 

i've read someone says this before , n i couldn't agree more . . 

i hope all of u will understand what's it meant from 'learn from your mistakes' . .

"the only mistakes you've made is , never learning from your mistakes."

-Jader 

till then , arrivederci .